Berlin

My first day in Berlin and I slept the whole day away! At first I awoke at 5:30am and was ready to tackle the day. I thought that was silly so I watched some Dirk Gently and then passed out. For the next 8 hours! HAHAHA
I have 6 more days here so I am not too worried. I have nothing really planned with anyone in particular until Friday. I have nothing but time. I explored for a few hours just now to find an adapter plug for my laptop as I left it on for my whole "nap"
Seeing my ex and his new friend on the plane down was a challenge. They sat very close to me on the second half of the trip. He's refusing my hand for friendship once again. I'm not sure why but I think it has to do with his unresolved feelings about me. He really messed it up in the end and was quite mean to me. He doesn't like looking at that. Really, I don't need anymore mean people in my life so I don't know why I am trying.
I don't need it to consume anymore of my energy. There are plenty of other people in this world. I'm going to head back out there and find me some German friends!

Self-loathing

A blank age to spew out my insides. I'm feeling pretty much like a garbage human being at the moment. It seems the closer and nicer you are to me, the uglier and mean I will be. Why is there this innate toxic bug inside me that wants to sabotage all the good in my life? I'm not worthy of love so before I let it comfort me I just destroy it. I'm addicted to the idea of love. I have no idea how to have a healthy relationship. It's not all encompassing, I know I can maintain a relationship at a distance. Just feeling all the self sabotage feelings today. I use people and spit them out. I can be so mean to people that have shown me nothing but love. It's not good. I'm working on it. I need to maintain and sustain my current garden of friends or pretty soon I am just going to standing in the middle alone and sick.

2016

I can't believe I haven't felt compelled to write in over 5 years! So much has happened. There's not a hope in hell that I can be bothered to catch up. Technology has changed so much that even how I can write is different. Haha. I'm recovering from a broken heart. I'm taking a year off of alcohol. I'm taking a course in self-love. It feels pretty good. I miss my old partner but hindsight is 20/20. It takes a while for it to become focused and then once you truly see? You just can't unsee what is there. We have too much hurt and resentment for each other to have a nice friendship at this point. The way it came about was awful.  I was hopeful we could have a decent parting but it was sudden and hideously sneaky. I spent too much energy trying to learn to love a non-neuro typical person. The fact that he said he had sociopathic tendencies should have been a clue right? Ah yes, the rose coloured love goggles. My new home will be ready for me October 15th. I'm dating some real gentlemen. I'm laughing a lot. Starting physio for my injured left hand tomorrow. Everything is coming up roses!

Rage-a-hol

Lately I have been feeling overwhelmed with bouts of rage. Like internal annoyance and anger at inanimate objects and situations. Like stabby feelings. I don't want to hurt myself or anything like that. Maybe scream. Or something. Where is this coming from?

August What?!?

Wowee man. My summer just whipped by so quickly I have barely had time to think, let alone write anything down. Not to mention my computer is so "touch and go" I would hate to start a blog and have the computer crash....that would be frustrating. I got better fairly quick after not going to Freezerburn(knock on wood). I have had a few months filled with love and quick affairs of the body that were quite scandalous(as usual for me)...
My 30th birthday was so much fun. From start to finish I loved every minute of it and am so incredibly grateful for all my friends that made it out and sent me love. I rocked the Lotus Long Weekend. I have decided to invest in a computer. I don't think I have purchased anything this big in monetary value since my first car when I was 17. I need a nerd to come with me, or a geek. Either will do just fine. I started this blog with the feeling that 30 was going to bring me something huge. I feel it. Change is coming and I am bound and determined to embrace it fully and scare the crap out of myself.
More later,
Wendy

June cough

I can't even sleep. I am so tired of being sick. I have been sick my whole life and although I try not to live in the state of well this is how it's always been I can't help but think I was just dealt a crappy immune system. And there is some weight in that since I was a poor doer even as an infant....I couldn't drink my mother's breast milk and I am sure I missed out on valuable immune complexes from her. Or whatever they're called. And now instead of driving across the province to go camping with my friends in cozy Alberta I am home in Vancouver....trying to nap but coughing so much I can't. I am frustrated. I thought this blog would be more positive and I guess it will be but right now I am upset. I am going to the library to spread germs on all the books because I have a book to return and I feel like being a tiny bit evil.

What...May is gone?

This month seems to have flown by and I can't even imagine how quickly the next one will go. It seems I have plans on top of plans for every weekend in June. I have been hanging out with lots of people and dancing until I can't move anymore. It's funer. May long weekend was super fabulous on the sunshine coast...faeries and fools crept out of this wonderful old growth forest. Some amazing energy from some amazing people. Sunshine crept through the trees and it was beautiful. My head is currently lacking in intelligent things to say as I have slept 4 hours over the past 3 days. I plan on bathing, reading and having a few sips of wine to discourage my old friend Insomnia from sticking around.